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tom and i didnt do much together yesterday.. i went to bed early, he stayed up late ..
we argued so much last weekend i'm totally stressed out. you cannot have a decent discussion with him. sometimes it feels that when he doesn't know what to say in an argument, he just stops caring.."it's my fault anyway!" is his special little sentence.. "it's never you, always the others" his second favourite.
and for us moving into separate appartments, like he suggested? not gonna happen..
i mean how? we both cannot afford it, i couldnt stay in berlin on my own and besides how would that change the situation? he thinks im to messy, i think he's too fussy about the cleaning and stuff. how would you learn to compromise and make a change when you just avoide the whole problem??
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tom and i didnt do much together yesterday.. i went to bed early, he stayed up late ..
we argued so much last weekend i'm totally stressed out. you cannot have a decent discussion with him. sometimes it feels that when he doesn't know what to say in an argument, he just stops caring.."it's my fault anyway!" is his special little sentence.. "it's never you, always the others" his second favourite.
and for us moving into separate appartments, like he suggested? not gonna happen..
i mean how? we both cannot afford it, i couldnt stay in berlin on my own and besides how would that change the situation? he thinks im to messy, i think he's too fussy about the cleaning and stuff. how would you learn to compromise and make a change when you just avoide the whole problem??
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Date: 2005-04-14 05:30 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-04-14 07:54 am (UTC)I wanted to ask you a small favour...could you please out the picture behind a cut? I'm sorry to bother you, but it's completely upsetting my friendspage...I just checked, that's why I had to unfriend you for a minute..sorry!
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Again, I'm sorry to hear about your problems with your boyfriend...compromising is never easy, but it's the only way to make things work if you care, and I hope that he realizes it soon..
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Date: 2005-04-14 08:21 am (UTC)i already cut the pic, love!
thanks for your kind words!
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Date: 2005-04-14 08:49 am (UTC)When I unfriended you, everything went back to normal, but now it's all messed up again, even with the cut...oh well, never mind, hopefully it will get alright during the day.
I can relate to what you say in a way, because I'm an extremely messy person, and my boyfriend is very, very tidy too. We still haven't tried living together, but I know it will take a lot of patience on both sides when we do...
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